IFS Informed Therapy with an in-person or online counsellor

Although many theories see the human as embedded in multiple systems and contexts, Internal family systems (IFS) views the person as a system themselves. As one thinks of a system, one sees its many parts, each of which contribute to the whole. The human is an incredibly complex system that contains many systems within and around it. As Richard Schwartz, creator of IFS explains, “Each person contains a multitude of cybernetic subsystems, from those that regulate blood sugar levels to those that regulate expression of feelings” (Schwartz & Sweezy, 2017 p. 26). In IFS, the internal psyche is viewed as a system that seeks to regulate itself and ultimately achieve harmony, balance, leadership, and development (Schwartz & Sweezy). The psyche and human is seen, in IFS, as having many unique parts that form identity. Throughout our lives, there are parts of us that would have, in the most ideal surroundings, have perhaps achieved harmony, balance, leadership and full development. However, instead we may have confronted difficulty that creates burdens that these parts of us are doing our best to deal with, and not always, successfully. So, parts may be holding anxiety, shame, depression, anger, despair, numbness, or any other states or emotions we are struggling with. IFS supports people to understand what is challenging for various parts of our system, and supports healing and transformation.

In working with IFS, clients will hear the term, and may experience states of what is called Self or Self energy. In IFS, Self is seen as a state of being that all humans are at their core, although sometimes, parts get activated in a way that can make it hard to get the sense of Self that is there. When in a state of  what IFS practitioners call Self energy, a person may feel calm, curious, confident, compassionate, courageous, patient, loving, clear, creative, and more.

Some therapists purely practice IFS as their therapeutic approach. At Valhalla Therapy you will receive a blended approach that is at its base humanistic and existential and is informed by systems theory, attachment science, transpersonal approaches, and internal family systems theory. As a therapist, blending these approaches helps me provide therapy that is always moving between the internal (intrapsychic) and external (interpersonal/contextual/ environmental) systems that impact our well-being. The work we do in session addresses these internal and external systems in a way that is emotional and experiential in nature. As a co-collaborator with my clients, I use the approaches that best fit a client's level of comfort, and the specific needs of each therapeutic session. Some clients resonate most strongly with a predominantly IFS approach, others may like existential-humanist-based talk therapy; some clients like a strongly emotionally-focused approach, while others prefer mindfulness based therapy; some clients prefer a combination of these and several approaches. Within the client-therapist relationship, we continually monitor to ensure the approach stays consistent with each person’s needs.

At Valhalla Therapy you can choose to work online on a secure platform or in-person in the Nelson BC counselling office. Choosing what works for you depends upon a variety of factors: your location, availability, comfort, technological support, and personal preferences. To discuss what works best for you, contact Valhalla Therapy for a free consult.

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